A lot of people struggle financially, and they say; I can not become rich because I don't have enough money or i don't have the right idea or I'm not in the right Industry or connections. This is not what holds people back, the thing that holds people back is EGO. Many people think; "I don't have any ego. I am just struggling financially or I don't have any money" but EGO comes in many forms to your behavior and attitude. EGO is something that holds someone back to achieve their goals and become successful and success doesn't just mean the amount of money in your bank account. It is your achievement and satisfaction that leads to positive changes in life. Yeah; It also includes money because money is the key factor of your financial strength and people with poor and egoistic mindset cannot handle that strength. But If you think you don't have anything in this list that holds you back, then that is the biggest thing or your EGO that holds you back. So, Here are the 10 things to avoid if you want to be successful;


1.

"BLAMING AND EXCUSES"

"Lame People Blame People" Blaming always says It's someone elses Fault. "It's not my fault. It's the government's fault, my parents fault because they are holding me back and that's why I can never be rich and Successful." When you blame others, when you point a finger towards them, then Guess what, The other 3 are pointing back. Talking about Excuse, It is nothing but a well-planned lie. "I don't know how to do it. It is just too difficult" These are all excuses to not do something. So stop blaming others and making excuses instead start taking responsibilities and admit your faults. It will make you more stronger and humble.


2.

"YOU THINK YOU KNOW IT ALL AND DON'T LEARN MORE"

Sometimes people don't get the value of learning because they think they know it all and don't bother reading books and learning from mentors. This is the reason why many businesses fail. In KNOW IT ALL, people do same shit again and again and expect a different result. That is Insanity. People don't bother to spend extra time on their business or work and that is what holds them back. Instead, start reading effective books and learn from others.


3.

"FEAR"

"Fear of Failure" "Fear of Being Stupid" "Fear of what others will say" These are the dumb things that holds someone back. Having a fear means that you are not confident enough. When you do something; you say "What if it didn't work or what if everything goes wrong and I could lose my money?" You rarely say"what if it works" Fear is something that overcomes your strength and inner ability. Your brain doesn't know the difference between reality and things you imagine. So, If you constantly think about failure, you'll never succeed. So, try to overcome fear daily by doing things that you fear to do. 


4.

"YOU ARE ALWAYS COMFORTABLE AND SATISFIED"

If you are always satisfied with the life you are living then you'll never succeed. There should be rage in you, to be better everyday but you're comfortable should not be the reason of your failure or not making enough money. "I am satisfied from my life and I don't want to succeed any more" That is a stupid excuse we hear from many people. 


5.

"JUDGING"

This is very common in people. People judge other people setting up their own conclusions. When they see a successful person, they think "He's an asshole. That's not his money, it's his daddy's money and many more" But the question is HOW DO YOU KNOW? How do you know that it is his daddy's money? that person could have worked late nights to achieve that standard of life. If you judge and see successful people in poor standard, how do you expect to be rich.


6.

"JEALOUSY"

People often judge people because they are just jealous of their money, fame and achievements and they criticize them. Have you ever said this; "Oh, rich people are savages, they are assholes and selfish. It's no big deal anyway" thats jealousy. Don't criticize on what you have not done or you're not capable to do. Sometimes in Youtube, People judge on other people's videos. How about you start a channel and make videos and impact many people's lives. Unless you've done it, don't let the jealously drive you back.

7.

"PROCRASTINATION"

Procrastination is the main issue in today's world. Procrastination is nothing but a silly excuse. You procrastinate to do something tomorrow, then that tomorrow may not come. "I will do this tomorrow or next week or after few hours" The rich and successful people don't procrastinate because they know the value of time and doing something today will make the tomorrow easier. Even in business, people cannot procrastinate because they can lose money. Even to start something new, you don't procrastinate. 
"The best option to start something was yesterday and the second best is today and worst is tomorrow."


8.

"BEING FAKE"

You see from the gurus, they always say "be the real you" and that is highly essential if you want to be successful. People often act fake because they want to be popular or look rich and successful but that is not who you are. When you constantly act fake, you've forgotten the real you. You don't need to act fake to be successful. 
"I would rather people hate me for who I am than love me for who I am not."


 9.

"WORRYING A LOT WHAT OTHERS WILL THINK OF YOU"

This is very common in teenagers as they always think what others will think of them and that is the reason why they act fake. When they have an idea or something they think is very effective, they don't implement it because they worry on what others will think and always take others opinion because their believe in themselves is constantly dying by worrying a lot. If you are confident enough that your idea will work, then you don't give a damn on what others will think. Like If you start posing on social media and gain attention and then you get a few haters. You just quit it because you worry a lot. Haters and Trolls don't bring value to your life, so ignore them.

 When you feel that you're stuck into this situation then remember the 18-40-60 rule. This rule goes like this; When you are 18 years old, you care and worry about what others will think of you. When you're 40 years old, you don't care about what others will think and when you're 60 years old you realize that nobody was thinking about you at all. The truth is that People spend their days worrying and thinking about what others will think about them. So, if you are rooting your life around on what others will think, just quit it, They're not.

10.

"DOING IT YOURSELF"

To set up a business or build up an empire, you cannot do it all yourself, you need teamwork and people. Indirectly in Youtube, you need the people who view your video to be famous. Yeah, no one cannot do your business as good as you but you still need the people to outspread your business. "I don't trust him. I don't trust her." See, Nothing great is accomplished just with one person. It requires other people. It requires Teamwork. This is one of the most common things that holds you back.


RECAP;


1. "BLAMING AND EXCUSES"
2. "YOU THINK YOU KNOW IT ALL AND DON'T LEARN MORE"
3. "FEAR"
4. "YOU ARE ALWAYS COMFORTABLE AND SATISFIED"
5. "JUDGING"
6. "JEALOUSY"
7. "PROCRASTINATE"
8. "BEING FAKE"
9. "WORRYING A LOT WHAT OTHERS WILL THINK OF YOU"
10. "DOING IT YOURSELF"