You need to know that everyone would be lucky to spend time with you. Ponder the following questions. Come up with answers to them, and write down those answers. This exercise may be easy, but it's important, because if you’ve not yet fully internalized the dominant mentality, it is essential to redirect your thought patterns. Plus, it's always helpful to jot down a few things that you can later reread when you need to be refreshed on your journey. Come up with your own answers, and don't forget to chose wisely the people you shall hang out with.
1. If you allow a person into your life, how can you make them feel good in many ways?
2. Imagine you are a man of high value, whose time and attention are craved by lots of people. What are your rules for allowing people to receive the gift of your time and attention?
3. What are some fun things that you like doing that they also like?
4. What are some qualities you have (or can develop) that someone would find attractive?
5. What are some benefits you would need to get from someone in order for you to bring them into your life?