Standing out refers to your confidence level Standing out of your comfort zone, standing out to talk to that person. Standing out creates a reflection that you are dominant and confident. It gives you the confidence, to do stuffs easily but people are not confident enough to stand out. To avoid this trap, THE 5 SECOND RULE could help; Well, it can be 3 SECOND RULE, or 10 SECOND RULE, but the main motive of this rule is to countdown in your mind before doing something, and after the final count, just do it without hesitating. Try to keep it short, because the longer you'll wait, the harder it will be to do it as your doubt starts to increase. So, just stay with 5 second;

THE 5 SECOND RULE

states that


When you know what you're going to do. Countdown in your mind till 5

 1....2...3....4....5....GO

 After the final count 5, do that thing, you wanted to do and don't wait any longer. Don't let your mind create any self doubt. The longer you'll wait the louder that doubt will be and may be you can lose your opportunity.